XIV
Womanhood & Reclamation
She Was Never Meant to Be a Trophy
The woman admired but never known
She cried in my arms —
not loudly,
but like someone
who had been holding her breath
for decades.
She spoke of a love
that slowly turned her invisible,
of a man
who placed her on his arm
like something polished and pretty —
admired,
but never known.
To the world,
she was a crown.
A symbol.
A life well-kept.
But no one saw
the quiet labor of her hands,
the way she carried a home
on her back
without ever being called strong.
She was the unseen provider —
not in numbers,
but in everything that mattered.
Meals made without praise.
Children raised without rest.
A life built in the background
while someone else stood in the light.
And somewhere along the way,
she began to believe
the lie that followed her —
that she was only good
for what she could give,
never for who she was.
So she gave.
And gave.
And gave —
until there was almost nothing left
of her.
But even then,
something inside her remained.
A quiet knowing.
A voice she had silenced
for far too long.
And when she finally listened —
really listened —
she realized
she had never been the decoration.
She had been the foundation.
So she left.
Not broken,
but awakened.
Not empty,
but returned to herself.
She did not mourn her youth
as something wasted —
she reclaimed it
as something that had been waiting
for her all along.
And for the first time in her life,
she was no longer
something to be seen —
but someone
who could finally
see herself.
— Nadia Luong
Twin Souls Collection

